My husband and I have opened up a lot more to each other in the past few months, sharing things about our sexuality that were never shared before.I've learned a lot from this .Perhaps not the lessons I originally thought I would learn .
- I found out not to share any random sexual thought or fantasy with my husband , because in a typical Saggitarian manner he will grab that thought and run with it hell bent for leather, no matter that for me it was an irreverent comment or momentary thought. So I am back to being somewhat self censoring, which is sad in a way, but nonetheless what I have to do.
- I allow I dont like to give control up to a lot of things relaxing and trusting enough to accept a g spot orgasm from him is hard, even though it feels good, there's a lot of built up resentment from him obsessing about them constantly.
- Nobody is perfect and I don't pretend to be. Sometimes it seems damn near hypocritical to refuse to use sex toys when making love, since we hawk them constantly (it is what we do) but often times just plain old cock and pussy is all that's needed, and that's ok.
- Developed a love for lube,that helps tremendously, there is no possible way a person could over emphasize the importance of lubrication during sex, and no there's not always plenty made for you.
- Given up on hoping my husband will ever have pre-cum. if prostate massage doesn't make it happen, I don't see what could same with orgasms from oral sex, he enjoys but doesn't finish , after nine years I'm resigned to that,its not a great thing since I love to orally please, but he seems to enjoy just the sucking too. I just miss out on the rush that comes from making your partner cum from giving head
