Lessons learned Top 5 , 9 years and counting

My husband and I have opened up a lot more to each other in the past few months, sharing things about our sexuality that were never shared before.I've learned a lot from this .Perhaps not the lessons I originally thought I would learn .

1. I found out not to share any random sexual thought or fantasy with my husband , because in a typical Saggitarian manner he will grab that thought and run with it hell bent for leather, no matter that for me it was an irreverent comment or momentary thought. So I am back to being somewhat self censoring, which is sad in a way, but nonetheless what I have to do.
2. I allow I dont like to give control up to a lot of things relaxing and trusting enough to accept a g spot orgasm from him is hard, even though it feels good, there's a lot of built up resentment from him obsessing about them constantly.
3. Nobody is perfect and I don't pretend to be. Sometimes it seems damn near hypocritical to refuse to use sex toys when making love, since we hawk them constantly (it is what we do) but often times just plain old cock and pussy is all that's needed, and that's ok.
4. Developed a love for lube,that helps tremendously, there is no possible way a person could over emphasize the importance of lubrication during sex, and no there's not always plenty made for you.
5. Given up on hoping my husband will ever have pre-cum. if prostate massage doesn't make it happen, I don't see what could same with orgasms from oral sex, he enjoys but doesn't finish , after nine years I'm resigned to that,its not a great thing since I love to orally please, but he seems to enjoy just the sucking too. I just miss out on the rush that comes from making your partner cum from giving head

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You cant buy me love!, but you can make it!

Really, Can't buy love, ok , so that's truism
 but you can certainly buy a lot of other things, or even better than buying love is Making love, and since we all know how to make love these thoughts should follow right along
love or a good approximation of it chocolate,  chocolate is the food of the gods , given to us as a gift for being good to the rest of the world and not killing some of those who may so richly deserve it \

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How do you feel if you interrupt your partner while masturbating?
 Betrayed? Offended because they didn't play with you? Turned on because they decided to take pleasure in hand?

There are many reasons people masturbate during the course of a relationship. It may be as simple as they're horny when their partner is at work or busy with something else. They may feel the need to have an orgasm, but may not feel they have the time or energy to pay attention to their partner, and therefore don't want to initiate sex. Their partner may be tired, sick, asleep, having their period,pregnant or stressed, and not interested in having sex. Others have said masturbation helps them fall asleep easier, or it simply feels good, so they do it. 

Masturbation is not a betrayal , its a normal part of a sexual relationship with your own body.The emotional component people feel when stumbling upon or accidentally interrupting a partner when they masturbate is unusual because the feelings of betrayal and hurt are common.

  A person can have a healthy, satisfying sex life and continue to masturbate. The fact that your partner masturbates does not mean that they aren't satisfied with your lovemaking capabilities. It also does not, as some people believe, indicate that your partner is having (or considering having) an affair. If you still have doubts, the answer again lies in your partner. To find out why they specifically masturbate, you'll have to ask them. This is an uncomfortable prospect to anyone who may have underlying communication issues within their relationship.

However a relationship does not grow stronger without honest and open communication.

Masturbation is the first form of sexual interaction a person has, its elemental, and doesn't cease simply due to relational status The issue of  Masturbation brings along with it the 

 discovery of  finding them using pornography whether from the internet or magazines or sex toys.

 I sincerely suspect that this is where the real insecurities lie, while most well adjusted men and women realize porn and sex toys don't replace face to face human sexual interaction , but since we are all programmed from youth forward with insecurities this is an emotionally charged issue.

Honest communication is the best reaction to finding your partner engaging in self satisfying behaviors. But please be polite, and let them finish first.

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