You cant buy me love!, but you can make it!

Really, Can't buy love, ok , so that's truism
 but you can certainly buy a lot of other things, or even better than buying love is Making love, and since we all know how to make love these thoughts should follow right along
love or a good approximation of it chocolate,  chocolate is the food of the gods , given to us as a gift for being good to the rest of the world and not killing some of those who may so richly deserve it \

chocolate truffles to kill or die for
Willie Warmers willie warmer pattern

or for that matter entire bikinis from nothing but string and a crochet hook


Of course our website doesn't offer any of the above items, but.
we do offer some other pretty amazing things, and since today is Halloween , we have scary good specials going on all day.
go check it out
www.Toys2Tango.com









Oh and yes we would be perfectly happy to accept the chocolate truffles <VEG>

its a Handy world

How do you feel if you interrupt your partner while masturbating?
 Betrayed? Offended because they didn't play with you? Turned on because they decided to take pleasure in hand?

There are many reasons people masturbate during the course of a relationship. It may be as simple as they're horny when their partner is at work or busy with something else. They may feel the need to have an orgasm, but may not feel they have the time or energy to pay attention to their partner, and therefore don't want to initiate sex. Their partner may be tired, sick, asleep, having their period,pregnant or stressed, and not interested in having sex. Others have said masturbation helps them fall asleep easier, or it simply feels good, so they do it. 

Masturbation is not a betrayal , its a normal part of a sexual relationship with your own body.The emotional component people feel when stumbling upon or accidentally interrupting a partner when they masturbate is unusual because the feelings of betrayal and hurt are common.

  A person can have a healthy, satisfying sex life and continue to masturbate. The fact that your partner masturbates does not mean that they aren't satisfied with your lovemaking capabilities. It also does not, as some people believe, indicate that your partner is having (or considering having) an affair. If you still have doubts, the answer again lies in your partner. To find out why they specifically masturbate, you'll have to ask them. This is an uncomfortable prospect to anyone who may have underlying communication issues within their relationship.

However a relationship does not grow stronger without honest and open communication.

Masturbation is the first form of sexual interaction a person has, its elemental, and doesn't cease simply due to relational status The issue of  Masturbation brings along with it the 

 discovery of  finding them using pornography whether from the internet or magazines or sex toys.

 I sincerely suspect that this is where the real insecurities lie, while most well adjusted men and women realize porn and sex toys don't replace face to face human sexual interaction , but since we are all programmed from youth forward with insecurities this is an emotionally charged issue.

Honest communication is the best reaction to finding your partner engaging in self satisfying behaviors. But please be polite, and let them finish first.

Sex Educator Begins Work on a Sex Education Comic Series Aimed at Teens

Sex Educator Begins Work on a Sex Education Comic Series Aimed at Teens

What good is a sex toy if I'm already in a relationship?

Why would anyone want to buy or use a sex toy? The answer is simple... they make sexual efforts easy, and maximize sexual creativity.From time to time every established relationship needs a jump start, even if that established relationship is just with yourself!


Self discovery
when you know what pleases you best its easier to communicate that with a partner
 sex toys serve a purpose beyond "sex" we as women are taught from a very young age, in general that sex is nasty, especially masturbation , men are given a slightly different message, its nasty but accceptable , if alone.


I am not going to address that Dichotomy in this post, merely introduce the subject, we will be covering over the next few weeks


Sex toys enhance your sex life with or without a partner.Exploration , and Sexploration are normal aspects to human development, if you for example use a Siri, and that helps you identify what works for you , and you're having trouble reaching orgasm with a partner, you can better identify to him or her , what you know works, or maybe grab the toy and show them , assuming your relationship is strong enough for that expression
  When you are with your partner, sex toys can make foreplay, intercourse, or even post coital moments much better  and help to strengthen the bond between you and your partner.
Over the next few weeks we will discuss different "families" of sex toys, discussing pros and cons of several on the marker, and comparing toys which at first glance may be extremely similar, but upon further information are not at all the same
There are so many ways that people enjoy using sex toys.Everything from simple external stimulation to every aspect of pleasure can be explored with toys
 Because there are so many available for pleasuring various parts of the body and many creative things one can do with just one of their sex toys,we will attempt to cover the gamut of toys and sexual aspects one could or would use them for.


Our Company Toys2Tango.com carries many different brands and manufacturers ,  We will focus on the Core of our toy line which are 5 brands we trust, all offer warrantys on their items and have a proven track record of positive performance.


I think you will be pleasantly surprised with the Honest Reviews.
Reviews will be written  Not just by us as the owners and obviously consumers of  these types of products but we are also opening this forum to other Men and Women who want to write and share about their experiences and well thought out reviews of individual products.
if you have a submission or story you want to share about your personal experience with a sex toy , email me

Dream Massager "The G"

California Exotics "the Dream" massager

"theG"  package states it has a soft rubber core, but be forewarned this is not a soft "jelly" vibe, the exterior of this toy is a harder material than one would think.

Once out of the package the true size and girth of this Gspot Vibe shows through , it is waterproof, see the rubber ring sealing the battery case,(next photo) 

As I said before this is a firm toy, not soft and mushy, the motor is quiet,  on a scale of one to 10 its about a 3, not super loud but not silent either

a very powerful motor  fueled by 2 standard double AA batteries

it does have a gyrating motion instead of just a "vibrate"

set on the table flat it does  gyrate into a circle

How does it work:  

The tip of the toy is about the size of the tip of your thumb,then it bulbs slightly at the bend and narrows down to about an inch and a half, then,widens to a bulb about two inches then has a waist down to the end of the vibrator and the on off dial

this is a thick heavy vibrator. 

The weight definitely is a factor in the enjoyment of this toy, much like glass toys the weight adds to the pow!

With lube on your hand the dial doesn't have deep enough grooves to control the speed, so if its being played with solo, plan on setting it and forgetting it at least that's what I found. 

The curved tip is good and hits the g spot well , the bulb on the toy provides that thickness  that helps everything feel good, all in all on the hot meter I would give this one  

XXXX1/2    out of 5

if the on off dial were less smooth , and easier to grasp when there was lube on your hand it would be a Five

Go check it out its available in multiple colors on our website its one of our featured products www.toys2tango.com and is available for  $16.98

Amazing erotic photography

Oni Studio, out of Washington State,Her Photography blows me away, amazing retro style

http://oni-studio.smugmug.com/

Storing The "Stuff"

Anyone who has a bit of an adventuous side,( and we assume that's you) has to store the "stuff" somehow, generally speaking, its a box under the bed, or a drawer somewhere in the room,
we travel a lot , an awfull lot , so we use a suitcase just for the toys.
We used to use a knapsack , but it didnt hold the toys securely, and too many times the toys got hot , and turned themselves on , and lets face it at that crucial moment, hunting and getting batteries in is the last thing you want to do.

so we now have a hard case, and foam inserts, just for the "toys"

What do you use?